消失的紳士

給我印象最深的部份是本帶著三個人去女主媽媽家偷電腦的情節。以及之後他們一起喝酒時女主說的話。
「Nobody calls men 'men' any more.」
"Have you noticed?"
"Women went from 'girls' to 'women' ."
"Men went from 'men' to 'boys' ?"
"This is a probem in the big picture ."

"We all grew up during the 'take your daughter to work day ' thing ,right?"
"So we were always told we could be anything , do anything."
"And I think guys got , maybe not left behind,but not quite as nertured,you know?"
"I mean, like , we were the generation of 'you go ,girl'.We had Oprah."
"And I wonder sometimes how guys fit in, you know?"
"They still seem to be trying to figure it out ."
"They're still dressing like little boys. They're still playing video games."
"Well, they 've gotten great ,so..."
"How, in one generation, have men gone from guys like Jack Nicholson and 哈里斯on Fors to..."

"A dying breed. You know?"

在女人們一步一步崛起的時代，男性似乎還沉迷著，甚至說他們是看不起女性的崛起的，他們會稱女強人為女權主義，聊以玩笑。
女人在這個競爭的世界壓力太大了。有時候遭受的不是別人對於你性別上的歧視，而更多的是對於自己性別上的歧視。正如影片中的女主角，她在事業上打拼的時候，家庭出了問題。她會想是不是自己的錯呢，自己太過強勢了，讓丈夫做家庭煮夫確實是為難丈夫了啊，而且自己沒有時間陪伴家庭，她對於家庭真是愧疚啊。但是，如果我們將角色互換一下。一位事業心很重的丈夫，讓一位本來有很大前途的女人做一位家庭主婦，若是這位家庭主婦出軌了，那社會的輿論該是怎樣地指責這個女人，更何況現實中在這種情況下，出軌的通常還是忙碌工作的丈夫。
時代進步太多，也太快。扔去了一些糟粕，也丟失了一些精華。