most people want to be the same
Why are some cows highly sexed while others just stand there?
Why do some men need 30 orgasms a week and others almost none?
Because everyone is different.
The problem is, most people want to be the same.
They find it easier to simply ignore this fundamental aspect of the human condition.
They're so eager to be part of the group that they'll betray their own nature to get there.
If something pleasurable and strongly desired is prohibited it becomes an obsession.
Think about this.